Top 10 Tips To Giving Women An Orgasm

1. Starting Outside The Bedroom

If you want to increase the chances of her getting an orgasm, you will start out of the bedroom.  When was the last time you surprised her with a letter, a little drawing, or flowers and sent them to her at work?  Believe it or not, romantic and creative gestures DO turn women on.  You see love and lovemaking are interconnected in a woman’s brain. Do this and you can bet-your-bottom-dollar you’ll be doing more than just eating dinner when she walks in the door!

2. Relaxing Her

You have to make your woman feel relaxed.  It’s extremely hard for women to orgasm if they are stressed. How about giving her a quick back massage. Rub her neck, shoulders, upper back, and feet to melt away the tensions.

3. Changing Your Focus

By first focusing all your attention on your woman, you’ll make love to her much more passionately.  Just think about it!  If you finish first and decide to help her come, you won’t have the passion and enthusiasm that’s needed to keep her turned on and hot with passion.

4. Ignoring The Vagina

To start off don’t stay too focused on the vagina.  Did you know that prolonged foreplay actually increases the chances of her coming? That’s right.  You will build more excitement by caressing, kissing, and touching her LONGER. The anticipation is often very powerful from foreplay.

5. Don’t Use Lubricants

Women produce natural lubricant which fills the vagina when they’re turned on.  Don’t fool yourself by using a product substitute.  Without products, you’ll instantly know if things are working; but with them, you can never be sure. Of course there are exceptions as some women produce more or less lubricants based on other factors.

6. Never Too Much Clitoris Stimulation

Are you aware that once you’ve stimulated the clitoris for some time, a little thing called the clitoral hood will actually come out and cover the clitoris? This mechanism is to protect it from further direct stimulation. (And no, I’m not making this up!)  The point is that once the clitoris is stimulated fully; make sure you pleasure the G-spot next, whether it is with your tongue, penis, or hand.

7. A Tip To Last Longer

The first step to help her reach orgasm is by not coming so soon. The best way I’ve found to not come is to penetrate her as normal.  When you feel like you’re about to come, just move your hips in a circular motion (like a swaying hula hoop) and wait until the “little fellas” subside again. Now continue pleasuring.

8. Finding And Stimulating The G spot

The zone of the G-spot feels like the roof of your mouth and is located about 2 inches inside the vagina on the topside. (On the underside of her stomach.)  There are two basic ways which you can pleasure the G.  You can use your fingers by doing a “come here” motion or with a love position that helps hit the G-spot…

9. Using The Best Position

Every sex positions are not equal. The best one for women is the reverse missionary (woman on top).  With this position she can control the friction to her clitoris and/or G-spot.  This is probably the easiest position for a woman to climax. However, get to know your woman’s body.  Be aware of her feedback as to what position turns her on more.

10. Giving Her Oral Sex

At first I didn’t believe it, but countless studies have been done to prove this fact. One of the best ways to help a woman reach orgasm, including multiple orgasms, is by going down on her (cunnilingus). Oral sex is easier and can be much more satisfying for women than intercourse is.  Ask her what she likes and try the ABC’s with your tongue. Mix it up with lots of different movements!  However be VERY careful! There are over 6,000 nerve endings in the clitoris so make sure you know everything there is to know before poking your tongue around there. Otherwise it could be really painful and, even worse, spoil the mood, and that is not what we are aiming for.

So there it is.  10 great tips you can start using right away to give women the most earth-shattering experience of their lives.  This will put you on the road to having better sex episodes that are gratifying to you both and you’ll be having it more frequently.

About the author:

Michael Webb is a Love Expert featured on Oprah.  He is the author of Lick by Lick, the complete guide to giving women oral pleasure. Unfortunately though, most men leave men disappointed and frustrated after cunnilingus.  Learn how to satisfy her with oral sex and join the rare ranks of men that can do so and keep her always wanting you by visiting here:

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