Better Sex-10 Ways To Bring Back The Magic In Your Relationship

Is your relationship dull? Do you feel frustrated that the romance and magic it once had is gone?  Do you want a better sex life? Well you are not alone.  Living with the same partner for a long time can be comfortable and stable.  However you can find that the spark that made your relationship so special has become nonexistent.

To help you get back on track here are some creative and fun ideas that you can use to bring back the magic you once had.

1. Show That You’re Grateful For Your Partner

Leave a long-stem rose (or their favorite flower) where your partner will find it, with a note on it saying: “Thank you for coming into my life.”

2. Send Them A Unique Or Special Gift

Get some crayons and a piece of paper and. Draw a bright child-like smiling sun and two stick figures holding hands. Add labels with your two names pointing to the stick figures. Write ‘I Love You’ inside a heart. Next get a large formal envelope. Place your drawing inside and type up a formal address label of your partner’s workplace, such as:

“For the immediate and urgent attention of:  Sarah Jones,
Creston & Barney Corp. 10th Floor,
New York, New York 10036.”

Mail it to your partner so they receive it in the middle of a busy day.

3. Give A Massage With A Little Twist

Buy a small, decorated cardboard box, a blank card, a sheet of colored tissue paper, and some massage oil. Line the box with the tissue paper. Place the massage oil in the box and write the following message on the card:

I know a great masseur. For an appointment call: (Your Phone Number)

4. Becoming Kids Again

If you are walking by a park, go to the swings and give your partner a ride on it. This will usually bring back happy memories from their childhood.

5. Having Fun With Water

On a hot summer’s day, buy two large water pistols and take them to the beach with you. Give one to your partner and then have a big water fight.

6. Bring Back Pleasant Childhood Memories

Ask your partner’s family if there was anything she always wanted when she was a little girl. For example if she always wanted a porcelain doll, buy one for her birthday. She will appreciate that you were thoughtful enough to find out what she always wanted and will cherish her gift.  This can also be done for your man.

7. Stare At The Clouds

Drive into the country, find a grassy hill, (or find a nice park) and lie with your partner and look up at the clouds.

8. Walk Along The Beach

Draw out the shape of a large love heart in the sand. Sit inside the heart and cuddle your partner as you watch the sun go down.

9. A Warm Summer’s Night Picnic

Get together some champagne, chocolates, and snacks. Put them on a picnic blanket on the ground. Lie down on the blanket with your partner and gaze up at the stars together.

10. Spicing Up Your Lovemaking

Spicing up your lovemaking is probably one of the most intense ways to bring back the romance in your relationship.  Surprise your partner with a little gift after you make love, learn to give your partner a sensual massage before or after, try a new position or just spend some time staring into each other’s eyes and caressing their bare skin before making love.

A lot of people underestimate the affect passionate and intimate lovemaking has on a relationship. By spicing it up, it increase the chances of you and your partner naturally doing romantic things for each other.  Why?  Because passionate lovemaking connects two people in unexplainable and meaningful way that nothing else can. So start using these tips and you will not only have a better sex life but watch how the magic and romance comes back into your relationship.

About the Author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500 Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up your lovemaking, adding more intimacy, passion, and pleasure to your experience. To read more, Go Here

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